Sunday, October 4, 2015

to be alone

But the thing is there's a difference between being alone, and feeling lonely. 

Being alone simply means you are by yourself. One can be completely alone, yet perfectly content.

The second is more intense. It is a longing. Whether it's for a friend, or perhaps more, you ache for someone to share yourself with.  One can be in a room full of people, yet feel unutterably lonely. 

Being alone is self-sufficient. As Ben Howard says, "I don't need nobody / to be alone."

Feeling lonely is dependent. You need someone, yet simultaneously you are disconnected from everyone.

I constantly find myself circling these two states.


2 comments:

  1. I feel ya. I love being alone and actually got a chance to spend a little bit of this weekend by myself. But then loneliness, whether with people or not, can creep in. And I understand that, because lately I've been missing a certain person, and he's not around right now. Tough. But God always is. Hang in there chica!

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  2. "I constantly find myself circling these two states"

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